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Rob Westwood
1968 - 2004
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Rob was tragically killed in a motorcycle accident on the Isle of Man on Tuesday,
8th June 2004.
He has been one of my best mates ever since we met at University, and we've shared
many enjoyable outings, holidays, and visits to local hostelries. His kindness,
generosity, and sense of humour were among his finest qualities. Coupled with his
excellent culinary skills, this made him an excellent host. Whenever I needed a
favour, he'd always be willing to lend a helping hand, never expecting anything
in return.
We worked together at Bentley, where he was known to be a very talented and professional
chassis design engineer. He had a wide circle of friends at work, many of whom shared
his passion for motorbikes of all descriptions. He also had pockets of friends all
over the country, and lots around the West Midlands where he was very close to his
family. He loved life, and since meeting his girlfriend Deborah, he had never seemed
happier.
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His sense of fun was legendary, and future events just won't be the same without
him. He will be hugely missed by all his friends.
A passage which sums up Rob's approach to life:
Look to this day, for it is Life, the very life of Life;
In its brief course lie all the verities and realities of your existence...
the bliss of Growth, the glory of Action, the splendour of Beauty.
For Yesterday is but a dream,
and Tomorrow only a vision;
But Today well lived makes Yesterday a dream of Happiness
and Tomorrow a vision of Hope.
Look well, therefore, to this day.
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A personal tribute from El Tillotson:
Rob became a close friend over the years and I'm glad I knew him. He was one of
those people who it was always good to be around.
I'll miss his daft humour and sense of fun; the way his eyes would light up when
he spotted the rickety tree trunk precariously balanced over the river, or the bicycle
just begging to be ridden along the top of the barge. That little giggle he would
give as he set off to prove that the stunt was possible.
I'll miss his endless patience; I've lost count of the number of ski slopes he's
managed to talk me down when I'd got myself all worked up. I never knew him to lose
his temper with anything or anyone, and he would always respond to a difficult situation
with humour. He was never fazed and took everything in his stride.
I'll miss his kindness and generosity; he phoned regularly when I was pregnant,
to check everything was OK, and it saddens me that Anna won't have the chance to
know him. He would always be there whenever I wanted a favour and nothing ever seemed
to be too much trouble. He was a generous host too; there was always smoked salmon
and scrambled eggs on New Years Day, and this after he'd cooked a great meal the
night before.
I've been trying to remember the first time I met Rob, but I can't. He's always
been there, and it's difficult to accept that he isn't any more. I'll remember him
with a huge amount of fondness; he was a lovely man and a great friend.
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A personal tribute from Dan Barber, which he read at the funeral on 25th June:
What can I say about Rob? Well I was lucky enough to know Rob for 4 years as a friend
and colleague.
We first became friends due to our love of anything with an engine from cars, bikes
and even lawnmowers when Rob joined Bentley as our Air Suspension expert. As our
friendship grew, Rob was happy to introduce me to off-road motor bikes, guiding
me through the first few outings with his words of advice and helping me extract
my bike from deeper and deeper mud holes but generally being quicker and more skillful
than me.
As the years went on I decided to get my own back and we started to enter enduro
races where the emphasis is definitely on endurance rather than the racing. I managed
to beat Rob in our first race only because Rob stopped in a timed section to help
a fellow competitor extract his bike from a rather large ditch, which rather sums
up Rob for me. After that Rob continued to be faster than me even though I bought
a bike which I was sure would be faster than Rob's Honda. So in a final desperate
act I persuaded Rob and some other friends to enter the TBM 12 hour endurance enduro
with me, as I was sure I could get the better of Rob over 12 hours! Luckily for
me, I broke my wrist the month before the event preventing me from racing but also
preventing me from suffering further humiliation as Rob went on to get the fastest
lap out of our team on the slowest bike.
Myself, I introduced Rob into the exciting world of moving heavy furniture and checking
my engineering reports for me which he was always willing to help with no matter
how big the wardrobe or how bad the grammar and spelling.
So whenever I'm stuck in a bog, stuck under a wardrobe or just stuck trying to work
out what a semi-colon does, Rob will always be with me explaining patiently where
I've gone wrong.
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This is the eulogy written by family friend Malcolm Bowdler:
Rob was 35 years of age being born in Kingswinford, in the West Midlands on the
3rd November 1968 to Bob and Pat who already had a daughter Sara. He attended the
local Bromley Hills School as a child and later moved just along the road to the
Crestwood School.
During this time, and indeed up to only 4 years ago when he bought a house of his
own in Nantwich, Cheshire, he lived with his parents in Kingswinford. His great
interest during these former years, until his studies and work commitments took
over most of his time, was the Scouting movement. He joined the Cubs at the age
of 7 and remained associated with the Scouts until the age of 18 participating latterly
in the Duke of Edinburgh Award Scheme.
Rob remained at Crestwood School gaining 'A' grade 'O' levels in 7 subjects and
later Grade 'A' in advanced level. He attended Bristol University where he attained
a BEng (Hons) in Mechanical Engineering.
It was here that he met Richard, Jim, Eleanor, Alistair, Joe and Tom and began deep
and lasting friendships, to say nothing of the early days of DPH, "The Department
of Perpetual Holidays", the wonderful concept of a non-profit-making organisation
hosted by Richard in the pursuance of "fun and frolics" for like minded people doing
anything from skiing and snowboarding to mountain biking and hill walking. He remained
an active supporter of DPH and up to the present time participated in many of the
holidays and weekend activities, which, funnily enough, always seemed to include
the odd can, or two, of best Boddingtons. I understand that the New Year's Eve party
at Rob's at Nantwich was an event not to be missed. His efforts at making the party
a "Culinary Event to Remember" became legendary, even though the wine drinking before,
during and afterwards made recollection a little vague.
Whilst at university, he was sponsored by GKN at Wolverhampton where he worked during
vacation periods but shortly after leaving university he moved to Marston Aerospace
at Wolverhampton as a Design Engineer, designing Heat Exchangers for fighter planes
and other applications in the aerospace industry. Not only did this signal a change
of job but also became the seed of another great love of his, the historic and classic
Sunbeam Motor Cycle.
Motorcycling had always been a part of life, both for family and friends. Bob, Rob's
father, always talked and joked of his rides on the Triumph to Catterick Army Camp
during National Service days and used a bike daily to commute to work.
Whilst still very young and at junior school, Rob became very upset and indignant
one day when other children would not believe him. He was pointing at the time to
a BSA 250cc machine just going by the school accompanied by his exclamation, "That's
my Mum!". Of course the thought of Mummy riding happily by on a motor bike was just
too much for the other children to contemplate.
Family friend, Malcolm who lived across the road was, when Rob was young, a Police
motorcyclist, and thus Rob was, as a child often seen, (I would add, quite illegally)
getting a ride up the road sitting astride the tank of a Police Liveried B.S.A or
Norton.
So it is not difficult to see why, and from where, Rob's love of motorcycles and
indeed motorcycling began. As soon as he was old enough, the first bike a DT 50
appeared, and from that moment on began a love affair with motor cycling which extended
to riding both on and off road, many of his most enjoyable times being spent with
Dan and other friends up to his armpits in mud, picking Dan up or trying to stop
him falling off and breaking something else!
At Marstons, where he worked, being the home of the Sunbeam, there existed a small
but deeply enthusiastic group running the Sunbeam Owners Club and it was not long
before Rob joined the merry band, acquiring his own Sunbeam which he proudly rode
to shows and on the "Testers Run", which those who participated will know was a
thinly disguised largely alcoholic weekend in Wales.
Again the family involvement with biking continued with Bob his father and Bob's
brother "Uncle Jeff" (who never was to Rob an Uncle but just a best mate), joining
the merry band of alcoholics (sorry that should read motor cycle enthusiasts) at
many of the shows and events.
Work wise, in 1995 Rob moved to Land Rover at Solihull, designing Air Suspension
Levelling Systems for the Land Rover Discovery, and later in 1999 following his
success with the Land Rover Discovery, he moved to BMW Group, Gaydon to join the
main "Intelligent Suspension Systems" design team, where again he developed long
lasting friendships. In 2000, he moved to Crewe to join Bentley Motors where he
was currently employed as their Air Suspension Design Engineer.
On a more personal note, recently a new and very special love entered Rob's life
in the form of his girlfriend Deborah with whom he had begun a loving and what promised
to be a lasting relationship. When I last spoke to him he confided that he was considering
taking riding lessons, on a horse this time rather than his beloved Sunbeam.
So who was Rob? To us all, he will undoubtedly be remembered in a slightly different
way, a way that reflects our own personal relationship with him. To Bob and Pat
he was a loving and devoted son, but also a great friend to whom both automatically
turned in times of trouble or simply if decisions were to be made or things to be
talked through.
To Sara he was a loving brother who doted on Jack and Ellie her children, and a
great friend to Sara's partner Dave.
To his friends at Sunbeam, he was always supportive, enthusiastic and ready to lend
a hand with anything that needed doing, even to the extent that he travelled to
and from Nantwich most Tuesday evenings to attend the weekly get-together.
To his friends in DPH he will always be remembered for his humour and those "damn
silly hats".
Collectively, we will all remember him for his help, his loyalty, his unwavering
friendship, his kindness and consideration and mostly his endless sense of fun.
He will always be there, always be remembered, always "Our Rob".
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This page replaces Rob's DPH member profile, and can be reached from www.dphols.co.uk/rob.
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